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Queening Stool

A queening stool is a low stool or seat that can be placed over a person's face 

to allow for oral stimulation of the vagina or anus. 

The seats of these stools are usually U-shaped, 

and are designed for a woman to perch with her legs on either side of the U 

and her buttocks on the back of the U. 

These stools are usually built with comfort in mind, 

and the seat of a queening stool is usually padded and there is a support

 just under the stool for the person on the bottom to rest their head on.

 Queening stools are used during acts of queening, 

a sexual practice that involves a Dominant female 

sitting over a submissive partner's face. 

This practice is common in Femdom relationships,

 and can be used by a woman to assert her dominance or humiliate her submissive. 

It can also, however, 

be used purely for sexual satisfaction and vanilla couples shouldn't dismiss them.

 Using a queening stool is often a more comfortable way to give and receive oral sex. 

Also, when a woman sits on a queening stool, 

she is better able to relax her pelvic muscles, 

which can expose more delicate and sensitive areas of the labia.

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Protocols

In a BDSM relationship, 

protocol is used to describe rules and behaviors that govern the BDSM relationship. 

Due to the different power dynamics in a BDSM relationship,

 there are different sets of protocols and honorifics that are required. 

This enforced behavior defines the interpersonal dynamic and rituals that take place in the relationship. 

 In a BDSM relationship, 

protocols often impose constraints and limits on the submissive's behavior, 

particularly in social settings,

for example a protocol may specifify that a submissive is not allowed to speak

to an other person without the Dominant's permission, may not speak

unless spoken to and so on.

Protocols are also used to define the behavior and hierarchy between partners. 

For example, a submissive may be unable to sit in certain areas 

and must refer to her / his Dominant Partner as Master / Mistress and so on.

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TWO - WAY ! Communication is the key / necessary 

to avoid missunderstandings and troubles...

 

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Orientation Play 

(also referred to as Cross Orientation Play)

Orientation play refers to a scenario 

in which an individual is instructed or requested

to take on a different sexual orientation than the one they identify with. 

In orientation play,

 a heterosexual woman might engage in sexual activity with another woman, 

for example. 

 Orientation play is always initiated  by an individual 

not engaged in the scenario. 

It could be initiated through a request from a submissive partner 

or a demand by a Dominant Partner. 

Another example would be if, 

at the request or demand of a partner, 

a gay male engages in sexual activity with a straight woman. 

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Breath Control

Breath control is the restriction of oxygen for the purpose 

of heightened sexual arousal and intensified orgasm. 

Methods of breath control include strangulation, suffocation, and smothering. 

This practice may be used during consensual sex or masturbation. 

It is particularly popular in the BDSM community 

where it is not uncommon for Dominants

 to control their submissives' breathing.

Breath control is also known as erotic asphyxiation or, when it's used on oneself, auto-erotic asphyxiation.

 Orgasms are said to be much more intense 

when the brain is deprived of oxygen, 

but this practice can also be dangerous and even deadly. 

Individuals and couples looking to experiment with breath play should be extremely cautious. Couples should use communication during the act 

and employ the use of safe words and gestures. 

Never use belts, collars, ropes, cords, hanging,

 or extreme pressure to cut off the oxygen supply. 

Auto-erotic asphyxiation is particularly dangerous. 

One estimate from the FBI claims that between 500 and 1,000 people in the U.S. (largely men) die as a result of this practice each year.

Choking (an element of breath control) 

Choking, when used in a BDSM context,

 is an element of the activity known as breath control. 

The practice involves restriction of the breath and blood supply to the brain 

by applying pressure to the blood-rich carotid arteries. 

Most commonly, 

choking is done with bare hands,

 a forearm to the throat, known as a choke hold, 

or with a prop such as a scarf or length of rope. 

Choking is considered to be edge play, 

 as the practice constricts or entirely blocks off a person’s air supply.

 It may cause severe and permanent damage to the carotid arteries and larynx. 

In severe cases it may even cause death,

 either directly or by bringing on a heart attack. 

There is no safe way to choke a person. 

Despite this, some people still engage in choking to seek a sexual high.
Many submissive individuals enjoy being choked

 as the practice reinforces their partner’s dominance over them. 

They also enjoy the lightheaded feeling that comes from choking.
Experts agree that the best way to choke someone 

is to apply pressure directly to the carotid arteries 

on either side of the neck rather than the windpipe. 

These arteries carry blood rich in oxygen from the heart to the brain. 

When they are compressed the brain loses oxygen and accumulates carbon dioxide, 

which creates a giddy, euphoric feeling that heightens all the senses. 

These sensations will last from three to five seconds, 

after which the person being choked will pass out.
Given the very high risks, 

choking should never be done alone. 

A person who chokes their partner should also be familiar with CPR. 

Choking a partner until they pass out should never be attempted by anyone 

who is not already very experienced with choking. 

Communication before, during, and after choking is crucial.

 As the person being choked will not be able to communicate verbally 

while being choked, it’s smart to establish a safe action to use 

if the person is feeling uncomfortable. 

This definition was written in the context of BDSM

 

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i never experienced breath control play and never been choked yet

and

i would only give it a try with a person i know and trust

very well 

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