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 the last point... 

Tell Your little how You feel !

that is so, so, so important ! ! !

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Tawse

The tawse is a tool of corporal punishment that was historically used 

on school children to enforce discipline. 

In the BDSM community, 

the tawse is used to reinforce the relationship dynamics 

between a submissive and a Dominant. 

This whip consists of a strip of leather with multiple tails on an end. 

This device of discipline might also be referred to as a belt.

 The tawse is a whip that was often used in Scotland and England 

before it was abolished in the 1980s. 

This whip is now often used in BDSM. 

Made of solid leather with multiple tails on one end,

 it can be used for a flogging during a BDSM encounter. 

To ensure safety, 

it is good to discuss comfort and boundaries when using corporal punishment.

(kinkly.com)

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Strappado - Bondage

Strappado bondage is type of bondage

 in which a person has their arms bound behind their backs and are then lifted upwards 

until the person is forced to bend forward to maintain the position. 

This position can enhance the pleasure and/or pain inherent in BDSM play 

as the position can be manipulated to leave the bound individual more vulnerable.

Strappado bondage can be altered to achieve different styles

 of this particular type of BDSM play. 

The different styles include: 

 Legs apart, or spread wide 

 Legs together 

 Head pulled forward by use of rope 

 Head bondage to pull head back 

 Elbows bound together 

Due to the stress of this position on the body,

 it is recommended that this position not be held for extended periods of time.

This definition was written in the context of BDSM

 

(kinkly.com) 

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Resistance Play

Resistance play is a type of sexual play that involves 

one partner "resisting" another partner's sexual advances. 

This may go as far as the Dominant partner pretending 

to force the submissive partner to have sex. 

 Individuals who enjoy resistance play either surrender control

 or are the one in control depending on whether they are

 the submissive or Dominant partner. 

Another allure of resistance play for submissive partners

 is the feeling of being so irresistible to another person 

that the person must have them no matter what.

Acting out rape fantasies between consenting adults 

is the most popular type of resistance play.

Resistance play can be a great way 

to spice up a boring sex life or just explore a fantasy. 

Couples can use props during play such as fake knives or toy guns. 

The submissive partner can be restrained

 to add to the fantasy. 

Resistance play is also a great time for both partners to dress up.

Before participating in any type of resistance play, 

you and your partner should discuss the matter first. 

Boundaries should be discussed, and a safeword should be established. 

Both,

 the submissive and Dominant partners

 should understand that, when this word is uttered by either one of them at any time, 

all play should stop immediately. 

Afterward, both partners should take some time to unwind and reconnect 

since resistance play is often a very intense emotional experience.

(kinkly.com)

that sounds like it could be interesting...

i never tryed resistance play yet, 

but with the right partner i would try it

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