my submissive journey

  Yes i do....

no, today i can't....

 never ever too old for it...

 exactly....

 no forget the password...  ;)

Tuesday's weekly task

Research on the G - g - List

 

Gynarchy

The rule, governance, or leadership by women.

 In a gynarchy, women have political, legal, sexual, economic, 

or social power over men.

 The dominance of women, 

either politically or socially, has existed in many cultures, 

and a contemporary gynarchy may extend

to sexual, legal, or economic control.

Grope Box

A grope box is a long narrow box large enough for a human 

to be held captive inside. 

Holes along the front, back, and sides of the box 

allow people outside the box to touch or grope 

the person inside the box.

A grope box is one piece of furniture 

often found in a BDSM dungeon.

A grope box is a narrow, enclosed box

 that is typically crafted from wood. 

It has several openings along its sides and front. 

Some of the openings are made of one-way mirrored glass 

so that the people outside the box can see the captive party, 

but the person inside the box cannot see those making advances towards them. 

 Some grope boxes have handcuffs and ankle shackles attached inside 

to prevent the person inside the box from withdrawing 

from the advances of people outside the box, 

or shielding themselves from stimulation.

The person standing inside the grope box 

is often unaware of the identities

 of the people groping them from outside the box. 

He or she is also unable to prevent the fondling they endure inside the box. 

Both of these factors heighten the pleasure 

for a person inside a grope box

because it enables them to enjoy pleasurable touching

 from anonymous sources 

 without guilt or other emotions getting in the way. 

Some people say that being inside a grope box

 is humiliating 

which may also add to the pleasure for many submissive individuals. 

(kinkly.com)

 

 i'm not sure if about the grope box
but i would give it a try

my submissive plant(s)

growing still in progress... :))

they grow nice...

 

my submissive journey

feeling down and sad...

i can relate / identify with that 

found at BDSM Unveiled... what type of submissive you are?

 http://www.bdsmunveiled.com/2013/04/what-type-of-submissive-are-you.html

my little tendencies....

i hope 

my future Dominant will accept them...

Tuesday's weekly task

Research from the F - f - List

Fire Play

In the BDSM community, 

fire play is a type of sexual play that involves fire 

near or directly on a person's skin. 
 

This can be done by placing candles 

or other flames near a person's skin, 

wiping alcohol on the skin and lighting it, 

tapping the skin with a lit torch, 

or flogging a person with a flaming whip or flogger.
 

        A fire whip is designed to be soaked in a flammable accelerant 

and ignited prior to use. 

        A Dominant then uses the blazing fire whip to 

strike His / Her submissive.
 

 For obvious reasons, 

fire play is generally considered to be a type of 

 edge play. 

When engaging in fire play, 

safety should come first and certain precautions 

should be taken. 
 

For instance, 

fire and flames should not be placed 

close to clothing or hair. 

Safewords should be established, 

and supplies and equipment 

like fire blankets, wet towels, 

 and fire extinguishers 

should be kept close at hand. 
 

 A fire whip may be a singletail or flogger style whip, 

with multiple lashes. 

Fire whips are typically made from Kevlar, 

as this material is tough enough 

to withstand being set on fire 

time and time again. 
 

Fire whips must be soaked 

in a flammable accelerant, 

such as lighter fluid and alcohol, 

for easy ignition and to stay alight. 

The longer you soak the flogger, 

the longer it will stay lit. 
 

The whip must also be kept in motion 

during use to ensure 

the flames don’t go out.

As with all fire play, 

using a fire whip is very dangerous. 
 

Using any kind of whip also carries 

some degree of risk. 

For these reasons, 

inexperienced Dominants should not attempt 

to use a fire whip. 
 

Dominants should avoid areas 

where fire could do serious damage, 

like the face and genitals, 

and instead focus on the back or chest. 
 

The Dominant must strike the submissive 

for only a short period of time 

to avoid burning the skin, 

with the tails making contact with flesh 

rather than the body of the whip. 
 

Swinging the fire whip around in the air 

before bringing it down on the skin 

can also reduce the risk of burns. 

It can also help to “warm up” the 

submissive’s body 

with fire wands or other 

less dangerous fire toys first. 
 

No matter how skilled the Dominant is

 with a fire whip, 

the hairs on the submissive’s skin will become singed. 

(kinkly.com)

my submissive plant(s)

 

They all grow so nicely  :))

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