Thursday, November 10, 2016

Research from the E List: Enema

Enema

An enema is the practice of injecting liquid into the rectum 
to cause a bowel movement. 
This process is also used as a means to clean the rectum 
in preparation for anal play. 
When using an enema in this manner, 
it is important to understand the difference 
between that and the enema one would perform to relieve constipation. 
When cleaning the rectum, you will be using pure water. 
The water is injected into the rectum, held for several minutes, 
and released into a toilet bowl. 
Sometimes the enema will be repeated 
until the water exiting the body comes out completely clear. 

 An enema is by no means a "necessary" step 
when engaging in anal play. 
 Some people prefer the feeling of cleanliness they get from performing one, 
but many people find that a regular shower works fine as well. 
An enema is simply an option available to those who wish to use it.

(kinkly.com)


Yes, for me, enemas are ok, but only for cleaning,
not in form of medical play. 

There are many different kind of enemas on the market

a few are below to see

i think  the douche enemas are the most common and 
most easiest, simpliest ones to use
they are in different sizes, styles and materials  available
i like those...





 an other style of enema
i myself think immediately of medical play
 when i look at them
not my style, i don't like them






 finally ... those ones to use
via shower/bath
i like this ones...



 or fixed at the toilet...
also nice, i like the idea




Research from the E List: Exhibitionism

Exhibitionism

Exhibitionism refers to the act of exposing oneself, or parts of oneself 
 not normally seen in public, in a sexually explicit manner in a public context. 
Those who participate in exhibitionism usually experience some form of arousal 
or satisfaction from exposing private parts 
or performing sexual acts in public areas.

 Exhibitionism is a fairly broad term as it includes everything 
from sexual acts performed in public
 to exposing oneself or another in public. 
Some people enjoy exposing themselves in public because of the shock value. 
This category might include people who enjoy acts such as streaking. 
Others enjoy the possibility of being seen performing a sexual act in a public place, 
but do not necessarily wish to be seen. 
Exhibitionism can be divided into two types, 
namely non-threatening and threatening, 
or what is referred to as indecent exposure.

(kinkly.com)

Till now i haven't practice/participate in any
form of exhibitionism.
But if my future Dominant would ask for it one day,
maybe, i would give it a try.

Wednesday, November 9, 2016

my submissive journey

 10 Days without Master...

if i wouldn't have some support
i would be totally and completely lost by now...

Thank You ! 

something to keep in mind...












 something to think about...

Tuesday, November 8, 2016

Tuesday's weekly

 research on the B-b-List
Blindfolds


A blindfold is a piece of fabric that can be secured around the head and placed over the eyes to block sight. 
Blindfolds are often used in sex play because when sight is blocked, 
the remaining senses of smell, taste, touch and hearing can be amplified; 
some also find the element of surprise involved in being unable to see particularly stimulating.

 Blindfolds can be used to heighten a partner’s senses during sex play. 
They are often used in light bondage practices. 
The removal of vision adds another dimension to sex by forcing one partner to rely on his or her other senses. 
In addition, the partner who is wearing the blindfold is submitting to the partner without one, which many people find arousing. 
In the instance that a male partner may experience orgasm quickly,
 using a blindfold may inhibit the problem by removing visual stimulation, 
which many men find particularly exciting. 
Blindfolded sex play also can result in better, more varied communication 
because partners are forced to rely on verbal or tactile cues, 
rather than visual ones.

(kinkly.com) 








Sunday, November 6, 2016

my submissive plant(s)

{ solenostemon aka colorful / stained nettles }


after the re potting last week

they're coming better and stronger now












Wednesday, November 2, 2016

my submissive journey

Thank You !

i'm currently unowned
but
luckily  not really alone
and
able  to continue 
my journey

Thank You for catching me
when i'm falling
and
Thank You
for giving me a helping hand 
and  the chance
to go ahead 

i'm learning more
about submission
about D/s
and anything else
what might come along
with the lifestyle 
 
i deeply aprecciate it all
Thank You ! 










Tuesday, November 1, 2016

Tuesday weekly task

Today we learnt about uniform play
so i decided to do my Tuesday weekly task
about uniform play as well

Uniform Play

Uniform play refers to sex play that employs uniform clothing such as police, nurse, and student uniforms. These pieces of clothing enhance role playing and allow participating parties to really get into the scene. One needs to invest time and money for this but it can lead to amazing sex.
 Uniform play can pay off big time when done right. A sex scene such as this requires the right amount of preparation and the right place. Location is an important component of effective uniform play. It adds to the ambience, and guarantees that the act is done within a safe and conducive space.
 
(kinkly.com) 
 
is not my kink, not my turn on, absolutely not
but
i would give it at least a try